Thursday, March 08, 2007

Accomplished Woman!

“Your list of the common extent of accomplishments,” said Darcy, "has too much truth. The word is applied to many a woman who deserves it no otherwise than by netting a purse or covering a screen. But I am very far from agreeing with you in your estimation of ladies in general. I cannot boast of knowing more than half-a-dozen, in the whole range of my acquaintance, that are really accomplished.”

“Nor I, I am sure,” said Miss Bingley.

“Then,” observed Elizabeth, “you must comprehend a great deal in your idea of an accomplished woman.”

“Yes, I do comprehend a great deal in it.”

“Oh! certainly,” cried his faithful assistant, “no one can be really esteemed accomplished who does not greatly surpass what is usually met with. A woman must have a thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing, dancing, and the modern languages, to deserve the word; and besides all this, she must possess a certain something in her air and manner of walking, the tone of her voice, her address and expressions, or the word will be but half-deserved.”

“All this she must possess,” added Darcy, “and to all this she must yet add something more substantial, in the improvement of her mind by extensive reading.”

“I am no longer surprised at your knowing only six accomplished women. I rather wonder now at your knowing any.”


I cannot do any justice to women other than bring forward this small all time favorites. A conversation between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennett...who does not know of these characters I ask. It brings about the character of two very different women, of a man's idea of a woman. Today as I sit and wish all women a Very Happy Women's day, I just wish to ask one question...

If Darcy's idea of an accomplished woman is considered...no doubt we would be able to point out so many of them...However...Can you truly think of one who is not accomplished?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

every woman is accompalished in her own way...be it a homemaker or a career woman...a daughter, a mother or a wife...
here's to woman...Happy women's day...

~ Deeps ~ said...

i can think of many......just because its woman's day....doesnt mean being a woman a gal has accompalished something.....

and lets connect accompalishments with "how being a woman is tough in indian society"....(thats totally different)

Butterfly said...

Happy Women's Day to u too.

Kanika said...

@ bharti

True

@ deeps

hmmm

@ butterfly

Exams khatam? How were they kido?